He touched more lives than he ever knew.

“Thank you so much for your prayers and kind words. I can't tell you how painful this is for myself and my family. So many of you carried us when we couldn't walk. You are still carrying us and we cannot even begin to thank you enough for all that you have done, for your kind words and for all the prayers. Max was the backbone of our family. He was an incredible person.....a one-in-a-million! He really lived his life as Jesus would have more than anyone I have ever known. That is nothing short of miraculous. How does someone do that? He used his life to serve others in a way I have never seen in my life. And, I had the incredible honor of being his mother. We all lived in his shadow. I only wish he had known how much everyone loved him. He thought he was an ordinary man. There is nothing that Max wanted in life more than for everyone to love one another and live life to the fullest, for us to have peace on earth and to serve our fellow man. So, I ask you all to give and accept love with reckless abandon as Max did in his life. I ask you to take time for your families and loved ones, leaving the unimportant details in life for another day. There will always be a long list of unimportant details to attend to. However, you may not always have your loved ones. He frequently talked about how in our culture so many people forget the important things in life. Here is something that Max wrote: Life Life is about the ups and downs, the being born and dying. Why we need a mother's comfort not just when we are young, but when we grow up too. Why we need someone to love and be loved back. How life can be so good one day and so bad the next. How life is so precious, so live each day like it's your last. What drives us? Why do we work so much and buy so much that we have no time left for anything else? Why don't we just relax and enjoy life as it is, instead of always trying to add to what we have? We don't run stress, stress runs us. And, it runs us down hard. Life is good, so treasure it. Do what makes you happy. Our entire family thanks you for sharing your wonderful stories and thoughts about Max. You have touched us so deeply. We will always treasure your kind words. Karen, the boys, and the entire family”

“I love you and miss you more than words can express! There isn't an hour that goes by when I don't think about you and there isn't a day that goes by when I don't cry for you. You were the apple of my eye, my soul mate and my hero. I'm so sorry that I didn't know about this danger, so I could have told you and protected you. I know, without any doubt, that if I had told you how dangerous this stuff was, you would never have tried it. You were the most incredible person I have ever met. I was so lucky to be your mother. I would do anything to have you back. My heart is still breaking, but I have to be strong to help other parents protect their kids. I love you!!!!”

“My heart will always morn your death but rejoice in having known you,”

“Dear Karen, Justin, Colin and everyone who knew The beautiful loving person Max was and always will be, My heartfelt condolensces to all of you. Max was well loved and I will cherish the memory of his life. With Love Sherri Dobner”

“To Max, and the Dobner Family. Max you were/are such a wonderful young man. I knew you just a few short years while dating my daughter. You made a big impact on us during that time. You were so real, such a great kid. You would come over to our house and do my chores without asking. That's the kind of guy you are! selfless, giving, humorous! I picked on you for the fun of it, but I assume you didn't mind because you kept coming back, and always laughed with us. I wish we would of been closer, but being the Girlfriends Dad, I had to let you kids do want you needed to grow. I wish I would of taken the time to get into your brain. You were such a great kid on the outside, and I am sure 100 times more of a man on the inside. Dobner family, You have lost a great son and brother. My heart really hurts for you and Max. I lost a brother last year, and I can only imagine the pain that you have gone thru loosing one so young and vibrant. Justin and Collin, I'm not sure I ever met you before tonight, and yet one of you greeted me as Dad. I guess it shows just how well you were raised by your MOM. Karen, Max was a blessing for our whole family in different ways for each of us. Max was here just a short 19 years, but he came across as a well mannered, happy, enthusiastic, man who was well on his way of possibly being the nicest guy I ever knew. Thank you for the time we shared with him and your family.”

“Max, the wonderful memories of you are endless from the little tot with the beautiful head of curls that made a room light up to watching you through preschool,grade school,junior high, and highschool always remaining true to yourself and your kindness of others was amazing. You have left an amazing mark on so many hearts, especially for your mother and brothers. May your mom, justin and colin find peace and strength through all the wonderful and precious memories you have left with them. Karen, I cant even imagine the pain you must be feeling, I can just pray that God will keep you close and give you and the boys the strength to make it through this very difficult time. Love to all of you ! Amy,Doug,Alex,Corey and Josh”

“It has become immensely clear to me that words cannot adequately or sufficiently describe the meaning and value of Max's short life. I can say that I am so very proud to have known Max! Maybe God took him because he already touched more hearts than most of us can touch in a full lifetime. In only 19 years he has touched the hearts of so very many. Our hearts are so sad now because Max had made them so glad. Max made us smile and Max made us laugh. His many many friends will universally attest to that! My prayers to Max's family!”

“Max, you touched so many lifes in 19 years. There are not words to describe the pain that many of us are going through caused by your death. But, you would not want us to cry. You would want us to celebrate your life. So, I am going to try to do just that. I may shed some tears here and there, but I will celebrate your life and not dwell on your death. You were one of the best people I have ever met. You cared so much for everyone else. You walked into a room and the warmth of your big smile touched eveyone. I can close my eyes and see your amazing smile and your crazy hair. You are my inspiration for many things Max. Your mother, father, and your two older brothers are so proud of the amazing things you did in your life. We are all here for them in their time of need. This is not goodbye, this is see you later. We all love you.”

“Dear Karen, Justin, and Collin, It is evident from the entries in the guest book that Max was a beautiful, kind young man who touched so many lives. Karen, you were the biggest influence on his life here on earth and I see in you clearly why Max is an extraordinary person. You taught him kindness, hard work, and enthusiam for life. I know the hole in your hearts is huge but Max is in a glorious place now and does not know any sorrow, only love. Our mission here on earth is to know, love, and serve God and Max did that by serving others and sharing himself so joyfully. If I can be of any help at all, I am there for you.”

“To Karen, Colin and Justin~My thoughts and prayers are with you! I am so sorry for your devastating loss! My memories of Max are ones that bring a smile and a chuckle! I will forever remember Max tagging along with you, Karen (my super Room Mom), to all the room parties before he was in kdg. He lit up the room with those springy blonde curls and that big bright smile! May you find comfort in the many lives Max touched in such a joyus and jovial way! My heart and hugs go out to you and your family.”

“Max, you were more then just a friend to me... I could go to you for anything . It breaks my heart that ur gone..We shared some great times.. The time we went to chicago together and how much of a good time I had with you plays in my head when I think about you... I miss u so much... My prayers go out to you family to keep them all strong. I love you and ur family...”

“Max, We really didn't start to hang out to much until this year, I will always remember the good times we had when we went exploring in justin's jeep with you, me, kyle, and justin, lol or the time when we decided to get rid of the appliances haha and having fun out in the field by brandons with all of us.. Can never have too many great memories, It's not going to be the same without you around, always making everyone laugh even on our bad days, i miss you man. Rest In Peace.”

“Max, The world is a different place without you. Keaton recognized you right away in a photo tonight and it had me almost break down in front of him. You meant so much to him and you were here for his 2nd birthday last year. That kid loves you... You impacted so many lives. This is such a major loss. Miss ya.”

“Max you will be missed by so many people. Our hearts break knowing you are gone. My heart and prayers go out to your family. You are a wonderful young man and always knew how to make people laugh. You will never be forgotten in my heart.”

“I held Max when he was just a few days old. I watched him grow from a tiny little guy to a good-hearted young man who always had something nice to say to everyone. Our hearts go out to you, Karen, Justin, Colin, and the rest of the family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.”

“Karen, How well I remember that sweet little Max with the curly hair, driving him home from preschool with my daughter Allison, they were always so happy & silly. I am so very sorry for your terrible loss! Lean on your family & friends during this time & let your wonderful memories comfort you. Take Care, The Jarchow Family”

“I didn't know Max personally, but I know his cousin... My condolences. I really wish I could say more but I can't.. To his mother, God only takes the best people.. Simply because he has greater plans for them. Max is one of those people.”

“I never met Max...but I know the pain that happens when you lose a child. I lost both of my sons to tragedies. May God hold you and your family close. Keep those memories of Max close to your hearts.”

“Max, what a wonderful young man you had grown to be. You were the apple of your mother's eye and you will be missed. What a huge hole you have left in the lives of your family and friends. As a mom, I just don't know what your mom will do without you, but I pray that God will give her the strength to live one day at a time. God Bless, Melissa Rodriguez”

“I will never forget the positive energy Max would bring to class. It was nice to have such a wonderful person to speak to while walking in the neighborhood.”

“I did not know Max but my son David did. They played football together at West and just went to a concert together a few months back. I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.”

“Though we can't imagine your grief we know a God who has been where you are and because He has...we pray that His grace will surround and sustain you through the hands and hearts of family, friends and Holy Spirit Himself. Let us know if there is anything we can do!”

“Our deepest sympathy to Karen, Justin, Colin and Family. No words can take away your pain and grief, but know that we are here for you to lean on. Max was an amazing young man and he will live on through the many lives he's touched in his short 19 years. It's not good-bye, it's until we meet again.”

“Dobner Family, May you find strength and comfort in Lord during this time. Our prayers are with you. With love and sympathy, Doug, Jennifer, Maegan, Caroline, and Robert”

“It was an HONOR AND BLESSING to have known you Maximus!! You will never leave our hearts.”

“Dobner Family...may your hearts soon be filled with comfort and warmth as we all remember what a great person Max was and how luck we were to have him in our lives. WE WILL MISS YOU DEARLY MAXIMUS! The Hernandez Family”

“Hernandez family loves you and will miss you dearly Maximus!”

“Words just fall short at times such as these, They cant express enough of how our heart & prayers go out to you & your family, David said it best in 2 Samuel 12:23 Can I bring him back again? I shall go to him, but he shall not return to me... God bless you all & keep you & may the peace that goes beyond all understanding surround you & comfort you. One day, all who believe shall be united again in heaven...Amen”

“I can't express how sorry I am for your loss. Max was one amazing guy, and I think we're all blessed to have had the pleasure of knowing him. None of us will forget his unmistakable laugh, or his incredibly kind personality. My family has had and will continue to keep your family in our prayers. Stay strong, and allow God to guide you in this rough time. I know Max is standing right beside him, helping him do it.”

“May prayers of strength guidance hope and healing go out to you Karen and the boys! I love you all dearly and can assure you Max is in a better place and I will hold him and all of you dear and close to my heart. And I will deeply treasure every moment we have together!”

“Karen, Collin, Justin; My heart goes out to you. I can't image, or begin to try to find words to express my sorrow for your loss. I pray that in the days to come you'll find comfort in Max's memories and the thought that he is in a glorious place surrounded by love and peace. Our deepest sympathies and prayers Virginia, Christine, Kelley and Natalia”

“even though I didn't know you very well, I still remember sociology class with you making jokes and being a goof ball. Max, you are missed greatly and we hope to see you in heaven one day.”

“i went to school and played football i still can not believe...he was a great Guy i remember his laugh da most we'll miss u”

“My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I remember Max fondly from fifth grade at Hall.”

“From elementary school, I remember a cute,quiet boy with curly hair, and a beautiful smile. I'm praying for strength and peace to your family. There are many mourning this loss.”

“Dobner family, words can not begin to express my sadness for all of you! I had Justin and Colin in 5th grade and I remember Max fondly! What a nice kid he was! He had such a great smile!”

“Karen, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May you find strength and comfort in all your memories.”

“My condolences to the family. I didn't know Max but I drive by this intersection every day to work. I also grew up at Mooseheart and was there for 13 years. My 7 year old son River asks me every day since the accident why? I just tell him "God takes the best of us!! RIP!!"”

“Frank, my love and prayers enfold you and your entire family in this sad time, I am so sorry for your loss.”

“Dobner family. We will miss Max very much and we are so sorry for your loss. He will forever be an angel watching over all whose hearts he touched. The Mannino Family”

“No words can express how deeply sad we are for the loss of Max. You and your family will always be a part of our hearts, thoughts, and prayers.”

“I am truly saddened by the loss of Max. He was a delightful young man and he will be greatly missed. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you.”

“i new max from his brother jutstin he was a good kid were missin yu rip max dobner love adam black”

“Max, You will be greatly missed. The Nyren family”

“Karen, you and your family are in my prayers.”

“May his memory be eternal.”

“Frank, my deepest condolences to you and your family. Words can not express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. May the peace that passes all understanding be with you as you go thru this difficult time. You will be in my prayers my dear friend.”

“Dear Frank and family..I am so sorry for your loss of your son. I will keep you and your entire family in my prayers for healing...”

“Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.”

“You are in our thoughts and prayers.”

“I don't know what to say Karen. I am so sorry, my love to your entire family!”

“I did not know Max but my son David did. They played football together at West and just went to a concert together a few months back. I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.”

“Our condolences to the entire Dobner family. We pray that you will find comfort in knowing that Max has touched the lives of everyone that knew him and he will be greatly missed. We are so deeply sorry for your loss.”

“sorry for the loss i will keep u in my prayers”

“So sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.”

“Dear Max, you'll be in my preyers.”

“I am so sorry for your lost”

“Frank, you are in my thoughts and prayers...”

“My condolences to Max's family. May you find some comfort during this time. Praying for you.”